How to Find & Keep Love

Love makes the world go round, so how do you find it? Spend some time to get involved in a hobby that`s fun to talk about. That way you can drop it into the conversation with the person you're interested in.

Communicate, talk, and be yourself. Don`t try to be anything that you're not.

Don`t expect it to come to you. It`s like applying for a job - if you don't send off the application forms you`re not going to get the job. When was the last time you went out?

Be honest with yourself - if it doesn't feel right get out as soon as possible. Don`t be too serious. People tend to gravitate to the person in the room who looks most like they`re enjoying themselves. You`ll look much more approachable if you smile. Use your eyes - gazing warmly into someone else`s eyes and holding that gaze for just a second or two longer than is usual will gain that special person`s interest.

Whenever you go out make sure you look your best. Comb your hair, brush your teeth, and don`t wear clothes with holes, even if you`re just going to the local shop. Just as good posture shows confidence, slouching or standing with your arms folded across your chest sends an insecure message. You emit a stronger, more attractive aura when you sit or stand up straight. There`s no rush! If you need more time to decide, take it. If your partner pressures you, that`s not the right partner for you. Don`t settle for second best.

Unless you are truly open to having a relationship, it won`t happen. Your inner world reflects the outer, and vice versa. Now that you've found love, how do you keep it alive? Kiss your partner before leaving home. Add a hug while you`re at it! It will be two minutes that start your day off right. And, don`t forget to kiss them when you come home.

If you don`t have a regular date night every week, create one. Don`t lose your identity as a couple. When you come home, give each other 30 minutes to unwind quietly and leave work behind. Eat dinner at the table without TV as a distraction. Play soft music, and really enjoy dinner together. Have lunch together once a week. Especially if you have children, this will provide time together without interruptions. Learn to take responsibility for your own feelings rather than making the other person responsible for your feelings of worth, lovability, security, happiness, joy or pain. Be honest and authentic about how you feel and what you want and don`t want. Be willing to speak the truth without blame or judgement. You need to have many relationships to be healthy - and your partner should not be the only person in your life.

Create a special signal to say “I love you” when in public. A whistle, or a unique smile will let your lover know you`re thinking about them. Compliment your partner often. Tell them all the things you love and appreciate about them. It`s important for them to hear appreciative words from you.

Author: Pat

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